UMRC Newsletter

Charleston District

Volume 5, No. 3 - November 2000


A Word From The Executive Director

Dear Supporters of the United Methodist Relief Center,

The calendar reminds me that it is time for Thanksgiving and close on its heels comes the Christmas season. Thanksgiving for many means family and friends gathering to eat turkey and pumpkin pie and renew relationships. It also brings to mind the outpouring of love and compassion for our less fortunate neighbors as soup kitchens and churches provide bounteous turkey dinners and begin to gather Christmas presents for the needy. Wouldn't it be wonderful if this spirit if love, compassion, and care could be extended through each month on the calendar, indeed each and every day of the year?

Here at the United Methodist Relief Center that is our mission: we strive to be grateful for all of God's blessings. We are called to serve those in need as well as those who come to serve. Each day produces new reasons to be thankful for the gifts our Creator provides for His children. Sure, we see families in desperate need, but we are continually amazed at how God blesses this mission and enables us to provide warm, dry beds for so many of His children.

As I begin to count blessings for the United Methodist Relief Center I contemplate the number of volunteer service hours (more than 35,000 this year) and, more than that, the dedication of the volunteers who come to serve. They are truly the heart and soul of our outreach. They in turn count the blessings received from the families they serve and return to their communities to tell how God's love and grace is at work in our world today.

I am grateful for the financial resources God has provided. While praying for these resources is constant, I am often surprised by the way that God chooses to provide.

Perhaps God's greatest blessing to this mission is the staff. Not only do they work tirelessly to provide for those in need, but are a constant source of care and support for each other. Each employee has an area of service and responsibility but, when there is need, all are willing to assist in whatever task is needed. When pain or loss comes to one the others wrap their loving arms around them, hold than close, and bear the burden. They truly bless and uplift my spirit.

So as I pause to reconsider Thanksgiving in my heart I hear the still small voice reminding me to be thankful. Remember who you are (a sinner saved by grace) and whose you are (a child of the King). You are sent - sent to serve. "Just as you did for the least of these, members of my family, you did it for me." "Feed my sheep." "You are my witnesses." Tell the story of God's love and grace at work in and through the United Methodist Relief Center.

Then, my thoughts turn to the Christmas story, the story of Jesus' birth in a manger because there was no room at the Inn. I ask myself would the story be any different today? I promise myself not to allow the business of the season to destroy the true JOY of Christmas; I will make room in my heart to welcome anew the Christ Child.  What Christmas presents am I gathering for the needy? Are they sacrificial gifts or are they a little of my excess (the toys or clothing my children no longer need)? The voice reminds me "You are blessed in order to be a blessing for others". Joy to the world, the Lord is come!

My prayer for you is the same as it is for myself. Holy Child, Lord God Almighty, prepare my heart to receive YOU. Help me to let go of the things undone and to celebrate the moment.  Fill my heart with your love and peace, renew my desire to strive to be the person you created me to be and then, Lord, please give me the grace to forgive as you have so graciously forgiven me

In His Name,

Pat Goss


Innovative Home Benefits Relief Center

What do you get when you mix television home improvement king, Bob Vila, and a beautifully decorated, innovatively designed home?   A $5,000 donation to the United Methodist Relief Center! 

Recently, the United Methodist Relief Center was one of the two charities benefiting from the sale or tickets to tour the "Lifespan" house, built in the neo-traditional l'On subdivision in Mt Pleasant. Interest in the home drew over 3,000 people in two weeks and also drew the interest of Bob Vila who will feature this home on his television program "Home Again" in the upcoming months. 

The concept of the architectural design is a flexible home that evolves from a starter cottage "kernel," with later additions made to accommodate life and family changes.  This enables families to remain in the same home and for the home to grow as the family does. As the empty nest occurs, the original "kernel" can be used as an in-law suite or as a starter home for the newly married children. 

Kevin Kalman, president of Kalman Construction Corp. and builder of the "Lifespan" house, suggested the United Methodist Relief Center as recipient of a portion of the proceeds from the ticket sales because of its mission to provide safe, adequate housing for the rural poor in the area.


"A Thanksgiving Blessing: The Annette Brown Buie Story"

by Lynette Duggins Thomas  
Advocacy Coordinator for the United Methodist Relief Center

Annette and her son, Mariel, have Muscular Dystrophy, and because of this disease Annette must rely on a cane and Mariel on a wheelchair. The family lived in deplorable conditions and could not find a way to live any better due to their physical disabilities and to her husband being out of work. 

Living in a home that was over fifty years old, Annette recalls being raised by her grandmother, Hessie Brown, in the early 60's as a teenager.  Since then, Annette married Billy Buie, bore and raised four children and buried one son to Muscular Dystrophy.   The family lived in such deplorable conditions that, in 1997, the town of Mt. Pleasant mandated that they install a port-a-pot, which created an additional monthly expense of $50.00. In addition, the family had obtained their water from a pitcher pump in the yard. 

I asked her how she feels about her new home. "I feel thankful that the Lord has been good to my family. We are happy that we will enjoy Thanksgiving dinner in a brand new house. God is Good, yeah." 

Annette expressed her gratitude to the United Methodist Relief Center for a very smooth transition and the Center's patience in supplying her family's urgent need. "I got full when I saw the old house being torn down," said Annette.

Annette Brown Buie thanks Pat Goss and the entire United Methodist Relief Center staff for a job well done as their diligence has brought much love into their Rifle Range three bedroom, one bath, handicapped accessible home.


UMRC Volunteers

When the sun drops below the horizon today and the temperature drops from the influence of the first artic cold to reach the South Carolina coast, the Gooden family will be warm, thanks to Roger Nicolini and the guys. These local volunteers with the United Methodist Relief Center are there today putting in a bathroom floor.  A gas space heater will also be hooked up. Mr. and Mrs. Gooden will only have to heat their 700 square foot home rather than trying to heat Berkeley County with the oven on the gas range.

Henry Carson and another group of volunteers started the project several weeks ago. Tearing out the tub, commode, sink vanity and floor in the bathroom took a whole Saturday. The weather was much warmer then and they planned to return the next Saturday.  On Tuesday, Henry ended up in the ICU with swollen, infected sinus, which blocked his airway. After code blue alarm at East Cooper and surgery, Henry is now stable but still recovering in the hospital. The Gooden's house was in significant need of repair but worse with the bath floor gone, water cut off, the shingles torn off the house, and no heat except for the gas range.

Roger contacted his volunteer team of Bob Wallen, John Winchester, Bill Temple, and Frank Glogorski to see if they would lend their help with the desperately needed repair for the Goodens. Their positive response was immediate, as it has been for several months.   This team has worked with us on Wednesday and Thursday of each week to trim out three other houses. Quality of work will not be compromised, even in this emergency; they will stay there until the floor is in, sealing out the cold and protecting the precious warm heat. God bless you guys!

The whole Huger community has joined Henry's family in praying for his recovery.  All of us care deeply about this kind, gentle, dedicated Christian servant but also see the gaping hole left by his absence.  It is cause for concern and prayer. Henry has been a strong volunteer for the past 11 years lending his passion and influence. He is in our constant prayers.

The work with the poor through the United Methodist Relief Center is dependent upon servant volunteers. Gratitude and appreciation is extended to each one of them. Clarence Westendorff is guiding the installation of a foundation up in St. Stephens, so that a group of volunteers can begin a new house after Thanksgiving. He is juggling this project with his regular work of directing the construction of the Elderly Transportable trailers. He is another one that has given his time and experience for the past 11 years.

 Friends often ask me why I am not depressed after seeing the awful living conditions of the elderly and the children. There are several reasons, but top on the list is the inspiration from seeing these volunteers living out their retired years Christian volunteer ministry.

-DeVon Ruth
Director of Program

 


"We've go mail..."

"...God bless your good work at the Relief Center."

"...Thank all of your volunteers for giving so unselfishly of themselves."

"...Thank you for the work that you do in loving support of God's people."

" I think it was one of our best trips. It ministered to us as much as it did those we were helping."


HELP BOOST OUR WORK

At this time of year when most of us are busy with holiday cooking and baking, please remember to help continue to support us by using your BI-LO Bonus Card: 

1.   Sign  up by calling 1-877-426- 6783, or go on-line at www.BI- LO.com. When you enroll, you will be asked for your BONUSCARD number, the first three digits of your last name, and our organization number: 2483. (NOTE: You may register up to three organizations to receive your contributions.) 

2. Each time you shop at BI-LO and use your BONUSCARD, the amount spent will be credited to the UMRC's account. 

3.  BI-LO donates a percentage of the total purchases made by the UMRC registrants back to our organization.


Fundraising Flashes...

I'ON Lifespan House Raises $5,000.00

Golf Tournament Scores with $6,455.00

Consider Making the UMRC a Part of Your Monthly Budget in 2001!